Daughter of Henriette and Katrina hopes in God

Sr. Sylvia Thibodeaux describes herself as a daughter of Henriette Delille and a daughter of Hurricane Katrina. The slavery of the past and the chaos and dying that swept over this city in 2005 are the bookends supporting a life of many volumes--as a teacher, principal, civil rights advocate, missionary and congregational leader.

Delille, born a free woman of color in 1813 in a New Orleans family, did the unthinkable, renouncing the role expected for someone of her Status--as mistress of a white man--and instead founded a religious order of black sisters to educate slave girls as well as care for the poor and elderly.

Thibodeaux joined Delille's Sisters of the Holy Family some 50 years ago and headed the congregation from 1998 to 2006. She credited the nuns with her early education, her father's schooling and the evangelization of many of Louisiana's black Catholic families.

As superior of the congregation in August 2005, Thibodeaux had to evacuate her nuns--more than half of them elderly--from New Orleans. Praying that she might summon the courage of Delille, she found herself, cell phone in hand, threatening to call a lawyer when the driver hired by the sisters tried to offload them at the Superdome rather than take them to a place of safety in Shreveport.

Thibodeaux, a tall, bespectacled woman with a low, commanding voice, prevailed. The nuns arrived in Shreveport 14 hours later, a journey that usually took under four hours. It was months before any of them could move back to New Orleans.

Two years later, the city still struggles to stand erect. Only 60 percent of its citizens have returned, largely because Katrina devastated New Orleans' infrastructure. A lack of affordable housing is the main reason so many have stayed away, Thibodeaux told NCR as she rode through the Ninth Ward and other parts of the Crescent City where the sisters have lived and ministered for 165 years.

The tour by car passed public schools that have yet to reopen, and houses along Reyes Avenue, Dale and Dwyer Streets that fringe the sisters' motherhouse, and still bear Katrina's scars. Debris is everywhere. Weeds and shrubs have grown tall and ghostlike, framing the broken windows and doors on abandoned, muddied homes.

"This is worse than parts of Africa I lived in. This is America. America!" exclaimed Thibodeaux, her voice rising. There is still no street lighting in much of the Ninth Ward; nor are there many gas stations or supermarkets--29 months after Katrina.

Dark avenues surround the motherhouse on Chef Menteur Boulevard, one of the few beacons of light in the neighborhood. Many of the congregation's 119 sisters--60 are still active--have returned to their renovated headquarters.

Outside its front door Thibodeaux unlocked the FEMA trailer that was her home and office for months after Katrina. Inside the tiny, dim structure, she led the recovery efforts of her congregation, which suffered more than $14 million in losses and still faces civil lawsuits over the deaths of 14 residents of its Lafon Nursing Facility.

In November she and four other sisters moved to a refurbished home close to the Archdiocesan Center. "We work long hours. We need to put our feet up when we come home," she said, lounging in one of the new recliners that grace the living room.

At age 71, when most nuns retire or at least contemplate it, Thibodeaux has been asked to direct the archdiocese's Department of Religious, where she serves as liaison between Archbishop Alfred Hughes and the 730 religious order priests, brothers and nuns residing in the archdiocese.

A typical day for Thibodeaux involves meeting with small congregations "that are on the edge of existence. I try to keep them hopeful, but they're losing members and a way of living they've known all their adult life," she said.

No despair

In the wake of what Thibodeaux called "the worst natural disaster in U.S. history," she has had to face the reality that "congregations are dying." For her own Holy Family sisters, whose average member is in her mid-70s, the end could arrive as early as 2014, when it is estimated there will be no more active sisters.

Despite the paucity of new vocations and the aging and dying of members in all orders, Thibodeaux is not wringing her hands in despair. "Katrina has forced us to think about refounding, reconfiguration and reorganizing how we live as religious." Merging with another group might be possible, though she acknowledged the challenge involved, given the culture and history of her congregation. "We have so much to offer, so much to share that I think it's worth exploring."

Thibodeaux took hope too from having seen new groups begin. In 1973 the bishop of Benin, Nigeria, asked her to cofound an order of indigenous sisters whose families had been enemies in the Biafran civil war. She has had time to reflect on the life cycle of religious institutes after spending almost two decades in Africa, much of it in formation work with the Sisters of the Sacred Heart of Jesus--who today number some 100 teachers, nurses, lawyers and administrators.